I don't think that is true at all...Just knowing how I was when I started playing music at 15 years old, I probably wouldn't be playing music to this day if I would have had some boring stuffy teacher that made practicing a chore instead of fun. So who's to say that I wasn't cut out to play? Because, here I am still playing music some 15 years later. If it's not fun and you don't enjoy what you are doing then you will probably loose the "WANT" to play.
If playing to music helps keep you motivated and allows you to enjoy your craft, then do it! I started out playing to music right away...I never had any lessons, I was never taught proper technique, I didn't start out playing rudiments, etc. I learned by playing to music. So I don't think it is going to kill anyone to spend some of your practice time playing along with music. Who cares if you can't keep up exactly with the coordination, or if you get off time? If anything this will likely motivate you that much more to practice so that you can keep up with the music.
Do whatever you need to do to make sure that you enjoying playing and stick with it. That will make you a better drummer in the long run than if you get bored and quit.
You are really not getting what I'm saying. I've never said not to play along to music. I did it, every drummer does it.
In this particular instance, we are talking 3 weeks. At 3 weeks, you shouldn't be playing along to music. You have no real coordination to talk about, probably aren't comfortable with holding the sticks yet, so, no, you shouldn't be playing to music.
At 3 weeks, you are lucky to be doing the drummers version of Chopsticks.
















